Horses have been on the planet for 55 million years. Being prey animals, they wouldn't have lasted so long had they not been keenly attuned to their environment at all times. In contrast, we humans tend to spend more time worrying about the past or ruminating about the future, not really giving much thought to our current mental and phy
Horses have been on the planet for 55 million years. Being prey animals, they wouldn't have lasted so long had they not been keenly attuned to their environment at all times. In contrast, we humans tend to spend more time worrying about the past or ruminating about the future, not really giving much thought to our current mental and physiological state. If horses didn't listen to what their senses had to tell them, they might miss the predator in the bushes and become dinner. Dr. Bessel A. van der Kolk observes that "traumatized people chronically feel unsafe inside their bodies and learn to hide from themselves."
Horses react instinctively to a threat, their "survival brain" taking charge to ensure the safety of the organism. Once the threat has passed, they discharge whatever energy built up in their system (running, bucking or maybe a shake) and go right back to calm grazing. We humans are not as adept at turning off the threat response, and c
Horses react instinctively to a threat, their "survival brain" taking charge to ensure the safety of the organism. Once the threat has passed, they discharge whatever energy built up in their system (running, bucking or maybe a shake) and go right back to calm grazing. We humans are not as adept at turning off the threat response, and can get stuck in the on position. The result is a dysregulated nervous system. Our "thinking brain" implores the "survival brain" to just get over it, and we might feel impatient and self-critical as we remain in a state of hypervigilance and suffering from the many physical and mental health problems that result.
Horses know that the safety of the individual depends on the safety of the herd. They stay in community and rely on one another in the business of daily life. They have no judgement over themselves or their herdmates but accept each individual just as they are. Stress and trauma in humans leads to social isolation as the individual str
Horses know that the safety of the individual depends on the safety of the herd. They stay in community and rely on one another in the business of daily life. They have no judgement over themselves or their herdmates but accept each individual just as they are. Stress and trauma in humans leads to social isolation as the individual struggles to process the discomfort within. There is both an unconscious need to protect oneself, and thus stay apart from others, and frequently a pervasive sense of guilt and shame, perhaps leading to depression, anger or anxiety which make interacting with others very difficult.
A horse's heart is approximately 1% of their bodyweight. That means Sansa's heart is the size of a football and weighs close to 15 pounds! In contrast, a human heart is about the size of a fist and weighs around 9 ounces. That massive heart puts out a powerful magnetic field - five times that of a human's heart. When we open ourselves to connection with a horse, our heart will slow down as it attunes to the horse's 40 beats per minute resting heart rate (as opposed to the human resting heart rate of 60-80bpm). When people observe feeling calmer and more relaxed around a horse, it is because their physiology is responding to that connection as their heart and breath slow down.
They couldn't care less who you know, what you wear, or where you live. The only thing they care about is how you show up in relationship with them. The more authentic you are about what you're feeling, the more collaborative they will be with you. They invite us to be honest with ourselves as they provide immediate feedback on our congruency (are we trying to hide who we are and be someone we're not?). With the ability to sense heart rate, respiration and muscle tension from up to 30 feet away, they know how we're showing up often before we do.
Yes, the fastest Quarter Horses have been clocked at 55 mph. If they wanted to get away, they could do so....and fast! If escape is blocked, they would fight - but they would always prefer to flee. So why would a horse, a prey animal, choose to collaborate with a human (apex predator)? In a word; relationship. They value it, they promote it, they encourage us to use our pro-social skills to foster it. Being fully present, open and honest makes you a trustworthy individual with whom a horse will choose to interact. Research proves that oxytocin (the "feel good" hormone) is released in both species when they are in healthy, authentic relationship with one another, and the stress hormone cortisol is reduced.
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